Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Lies Women Tell: No I’m not mad at you

Installment 2 of 5

If you know you’ve done something wrong, (I swear men just don’t like to admit when they're wrong) why in the heck wouldn’t your girl be mad at you? Instead of thinking she wants you to be a mind reader, because sometimes she does know that she would really actually appreciate it if you could recognize that what you do affects her. She doesn’t want to feel like she’s nagging every time she brings something up, so instead she’ll say, “No honey, I’m not mad at you.”

Some women will never let their guy know just how mad they really are on the spot. Instead, she might talk shit about you to her friends until it looks like things have blown over. Later on, in a fit of rage, she might throw what you did in your face just to belittle your feelings for her. No one said love was easy. No matter how long ago the incident occurred, she will expect you to identify what you did wrong, apologize and never let it happen again.

Don’t let it get this far! When she says that she is not mad but you can tell she is, call her out on it. I know it’s a bit immature. But she’ll give you all the signs you need to be aware that she’s lying. You need to be able to pick up on the change in her voice, the fact that she’s rolling her eyes or she might even mumble under her breath.

Dig until you get it out of her, she really wants to tell you. She just needs to know you care.

Hey, we women can be difficult creatures, but each sex has their faults, like Mr. Emotionally Unavailable at any age... but i’ll save that for another post.

Originally posted at I Hate The Way You Eat Cereal

1 comment:

Assertive Wit said...

hahahahaha if they have to ask, then I'm definitely telling them "YES, I'm mad and this is why (blah, blah, blah)". The silent rage build up is the worse because 9 times out of 10, while stewing in my anger, he's going to do something else to piss me off, thus making it even harder for me to get over the first transgression. It just isn't worth it to me to lie the first time ;)

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